Below is a tutorial I found on YouTube which should help you out because its not just about the red lips, its about getting that sharp jawline look
Iron inside out on low heat without steam
If the party is during the day or in the afternoon, you can add more color and patterns to your outfit, although the basics mentioned above apply here as well

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